Episode 197 Discussion: 16th Feb 2013

Bittuji-Madhu become Bhai Behen and Bittuji Returns to Chief on Behana's command

Events of the Episode

1. Dips tries to avenge her toe nail cut by having Media hound Madhu at her parlour by giving the breaking news that RK and Madhu have split.
2. Madhu handles the media questions defty, terms the split between RK and herself as separation of love from the relationship. She also leaves the job because the centre of attraction she has been to the parlour on her Day 1.
3. Bittuji is waiting to see Madhu at Chawl. Padmini tells him she will come in the evening and is shocked to see Madhu come home early. She tells her she left the job.  Sees Bittuji and they have hearty talk about the turn of events. Madhu makes him her brother as him calling her Bhabhiji does not sound well.
4. He tells her that he also left his job. Madhu does not like it that Bittuji left RK as he will be all alone. She makes him see sense that he and RK both need each other and therefore he go back for his job. Bittuji then says it is his responsibility to find a job for his sister.
5. Bittuji goes to RK Mansion and tells about all this to Radhaji, who sees the opportunity of getting the Madhu and RK face each other so that icy break between them is thawed for all that it has gone wrong. The challenge is for Bittuji to get back his job.
6. When RK returns home, Bittuji begs for his job. With a lot of air and attitude and warning, RK accepts Bittuji. Radhaji and Bittuji are happy that this part went well.
7. RK goes to his room and sees Dipali exercising in his room. And on the TV the media is actually showing Madhu's interview. RK hears it, is unfazed and inscrutable as ever. As Dips goes about trying to have a small chit chat on Madhu by demeaning her, RK lifts Dipali and indulges her so that she loses herself in him and he takes her to her room, drops on her bed. As she gets sense about her surroundings, she is knocked sense a second time as RK splashes water on her face in hard way. RK then threatens her not to ever think of insulting Madhu as that right is only his.
8. Madhu at her chawl, is steeling herself, by putting her saree and mangalsutra safely in storage and telling Padmini and Trishna that she will move on, and that saree and mangalsutra, which has lot of respect for her, will teach her not to ever get cheated again.

Episode Reviews

By Myself

Dominant Rasa was Joy. The best way it can be described is through Yahoo's LOL emoticon.

Yey!!!!  Bittuji and Madhu are now brother and sister. I said yesterday that in Abhimaan, Asrani makes Uma his sister, and here Madhu made him her brother.

So Sikky was just a one day secretary with RK doing the work by himself. He was frustrated by the end of the day. He must have been secretively happy seeing Bittuji back. lol!!!

In RK's words (once he said these to Madhu)..I would like to applaud Bittuji today..."What a performance !!! Continue!!!!!". :))))   Bittuji aur Radhaji ne milke RK to Ullu Banaaya !!!! (In english, Rads & Bittuji fooled RK).

Dips -RK Scene Vis-a-Vis Radhaji - Bittuji Scene

Dips ki Besharmi ki koi Hadd hi nahee. RFOL!!!! All RK could do was splash water on her face and still she is not angry with RK and only jealous of Madhu;s hold on his heart.  And RK...what is he reduced to do now...to pick up Dips (instead of Madhu) and drop her over her bed. LOL!!!  Weightlifter ban gaya !!!!  RK is kya aukaad rah gayee. That's what happens when people make a wrong choice in love...he had once loved Dips na...so ab Bhugto !!! :))))

Clearly RK and Dips were looking two fools who were out there playing games with people, cheating and all. And now look at them. What are they reduced to ? Radhaji and Bittuji now playing game with RK . LOL!!!  CHEATING GAME STARTED BY DIPS HAS BEEN TRASHED OR TAKEN TO NEW HEIGHTS BY RK NOW FOLLOWED BY HIS MOTHER AND HIS SECRETARY. :))))

Madhu Scenes

Commendable girl. Just love her. Here wanna share what I got as comment over my blog towards yesterday's episode. Its from the other gender and hence a valuable opinion.

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Madhu regains her self

The striking aspect of Madhu is being self confident is striking in all the episodes, telling Deepali that she is patni, Aauring Radha of RKs emotional return to mother is portraid after a pain filled episode. This episode is building on the same aspect well after a heart breaking episode of seperation.

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The Equation that Madhu and RK have now

In today's episode, they have yet again showed to the world that it is very private between the two. When Madhu answered the media that "pyaar alag ho gaya tha"...when we look at RK's visage, he is like, "yeah, I know" And Dips became a vehicle again for RK to tell us viewers that, he still considers Madhu as his...that haque(right) of insulting, hating and avenging is all his and no one else has it. He has made that clear. 

And there in Chawl, Madhu looking at the same news...is very clearly thinking what is it their equation about now. She still cares for his well being and his mother. She wants Bittuji to take care of him. But she wants to steel herself so much that when he comes back to tell her that he loves her, she wants to be indifferent to his love, as if that is what will quench her hurt at not being reciprocated in love, in being told that he never loved her. Cheating...being led to believe that he loved her hurts her but more that that, being told that he does not love her is hurting her more.

Now, Madhu has brought in complexitiies to the relationship they have now. They both are calling each other Ex Husband and Ex Wife. So not sure what is the divorce status now...seems I have to assume that divorce already happened. They are painting it like Filmy couple seperation.

But complexities if RK had weaved into their relationship, Madhu added a new dimension to it. She wants to tell RK, I want to be immune to your love inspite of me wanting and actually taking care of you in best possible way. And RK was all this before...not sure where he is going now...but one thing is clear...he is possessing Madhu more than ever, holding on to her more than ever. He preserved her memories on the swing, will not want Madhu to see him acting the same scene with any other actress and making it a public memory. As told to Dipali, he will not have his Ex-Wife belittled by anyone. She is still his sherni, who is dignified, courageous and soft-hearted. Once again both of them made it very clear to the rest of the world...we are not separated, our love is separated. And this is very much OUR relationship. 

So this is the NEW DNA of Rishbala romance. Trying to be immune to each other's love inspite of being caring to each other. They still have that haque on each other...indirect hi sahee.

RK and his healing from his three hurts

The weight-lifting scene LOL!!! RK picking up Dipali in his arms and leaving her in her room.

A disgusting act to see and yet gives away RK's indifference to Dipali now. She doesn't hurt him, affect him for his own sake, she can only affect him if she does something to Madhu now. To save Madhu's honour, today RK was ready to go public about Dipali's feelings for him. He wanted everyone to see what all she feels for him...not just in his room...but outside his room. And he manipulated her. Our Bad Luck, scene just ended between the two...Sigh!!!!

I sense that most people are all disgusted about the scene. That RK has reached new low. But have you all wondered what was the actual ACT about??? It was about exposing Dipali to ALL...to protect his Ex-Wife's place forever in his room, even in Madhu's absence, when she was not there to defend the place.

• If RK picked up Dipali in his arms, where was he leading her on to...INTO HIS ROOM ORAWAY FROM HIS ROOM.

• What would have happened if SIKKY HAD SEEN RK LIFTING DIPALI LIKE THAT and his darling wife with hands over RK ?  What would the household have felt ?  Half the time, I was expecting Sikky to see it. And  IMO, RK EXPECTED SOMEONE to SEE that SCENE of HIM CARRYING DIPALI to HER ROOM.

• What would have Sikky or Radhaji asked ? RK where are you taking her ? What happened to her? Why is she in your arms ?

RK would have answered...Bhabhi was in my room exercising. I am taking her to her room.

What would have been the SUBTLE MESSAGE Driven here ? 

WHY DIPS is EXERCISING in HIS ROOM ? 

And who HAD to ANSWER that QUESTION ? RK or DIPS or SIKKY ?

IMO SIKKY was the one to answer that between TWO MEN. And no longer the fight is between RK and Dips. The WOMAN HAD ALREADY LOST ALL STATUS at that Point. This is is called SOCIETAL JUDGEMENT DAY. 

Just that today, they wanted to use Dipali for RK to utter the dialogue of his HAQUE of hating, insulting and avenging over Madhu was his, even if she was his EX-WIFE. And he was saying this to his EX-GF.  I feel they are preserving the scene of total public display of Dips for later, when Sikky gets to know about it.

See the contrast.

• There was a day when RK went to Madhu's room, picked her up in his arms and instilled her in his room.
• Today, Dips, who was in his room, INSTEAD of SAYING HIS REGULAR OUTT, he just picked up her, dropped her in her room and splashed water on her face, asking her to come back to senses.

To ME TODAY RK OFFICIALLY CURED HIMSELF OF HIS THIRD HURT.

MADHU HAS OFFICIALLY CURED RK OF ALL HIS THREE PUNCHES/HURTS.

1. RK is now reconciled to Ganesha, his father. They both are on the side table.
2. RK is reconciled to his mother. He respects her completely.
3. RK has shown Dipali her place and he was not afraid to show this in front of people. He already said to Dipali..."Coffer nahin Vodka se celebrate karo" in front of his mother. So RK is now HELL-BENT to SHOW DIPALI's REALITY to HIS FAMILY, especially HIS MOTHER and HIS BROTHER SIKKY

Finally RK has stopped drinking and is now able to sleep...which he was just to have sleep forgetting those three hurts.

Pictorial Commentary

1st half of the Episode

Originally posted by zorica

2nd half of the episode

Originally posted by zorica

Can be seen that she is boring to him, RK disgusts her,

and he wears her like a sack of potatoes!

By myself

sack of potatoes!

RFOL!!! Thank you Zorica for that epithet.  

Today I am on a roll.  Because I feel poetic justice for myself today. I cried hell at the incestuous relationship the CVs were painting between RK and Dips. I complained to them so many times. I used the word "napunsak" as in "eunuch" for RK in not doing anything to Dips and his fear of scandal for physically touching her...If you have noticed you will see, Dips touching him all the time and he never touching her...just protecting himself...so today I was happy he touched her, meaning she does not affect him and picked her up and walked out, meaning he is no more afraid of scandal and a man who is capable of answering questions of people if they asked him...and finally he righteously dropped her on her bed...and did not stop there, showed sense without anger at her shamelessness, by splashing cold water on her face...they do that in questioning cells and mental hospitals...right ?

But he showed anger at her audacity to go and insult Madhu or even talk about Madhu in front of him 
[QUOTE=zorica]Girls,
I forgot this very important scene!


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